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How Much Do Used Panties Sell For?
If you’ve ever wondered how much people actually pay for used panties, you’re not alone. It’s a curiosity that crosses…
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November 26, 2025
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How to Sell Used Panties Online
Thinking about launching a seriously unique side hustle? The online resale world holds many opportunities, and one of the most…
By April Sutphen
November 12, 2025
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A Guide to Paying Taxes on Selling Used Panties
If celebrities, athletes, and reality TV stars have taught us anything, it’s to pay your taxes. Punishable by jail time…
By April Sutphen
December 4, 2023
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Rate My Wife! A Deeper Look Into This Kinky Trend
Are you proud of your hot and sexy wife? If you want all the world to see – and rate…
By April Sutphen
November 6, 2023
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Is Selling Used Panties Legal? Making Bank without Breaking the Law
When you decide to sell your sexy used panties online, you want to break record sales, not the law. Because…
By April Sutphen
October 9, 2023
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Generous or Prohibited? Can You Donate Used Underwear to The Salvation Army?
Most people don’t realize that The Salvation Army is a religious organization. This charitable non-profit group was founded in 1865…
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September 25, 2023
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Can You Make Money Selling Used Panties on Mercari?
When it comes to online shopping for gently used items, there’s an app for that. And that app is Mercari.…
By April Sutphen
September 11, 2023
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The Ultimate Guide to Selling Used Panties on Poshmark
When it comes to buying and selling gently used clothing and accessories online, no one does it quite like Poshmark.…
By April Sutphen
September 4, 2023
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How to Sell Used Underwear on eBay: Is It Allowed and Is It Worth It?
Available in 32 countries worldwide, eBay is an online auction and shopping website where individuals and business owners buy, sell,…
By April Sutphen
August 28, 2023
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Can You Donate Used Underwear to Goodwill?
Did you know that textile waste (yes, dirty underwear and clothing), makes up a large portion of most landfills and…
By April Sutphen
August 14, 2023
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The Best Strap-Ons for Pegging 2023
Are you aroused and intrigued by the idea of a little backdoor play? If so, you’re not alone. Nearly 40%…
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February 6, 2023
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Where Can I Sell My Shoes? The 5 Best Sites
Women, more than men, are more likely to hold onto multiple pairs of shoes – even if they don’t wear…
By April Sutphen
January 9, 2023
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How to Make Money Using Cash App
Banking has never been easier since the introduction of countless online apps and services. From Zelle and PayPal to Venmo…
By April Sutphen
December 26, 2022
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20 Sexy TikTokers with OnlyFans Accounts
It was only a matter of time before the trending worlds of TikTok and OnlyFans collided. In today’s digital world,…
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December 12, 2022
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How to Get Paid to Talk to Lonely Men
It’s true that the world is filled with endless opportunities. But it’s also filled with a lot of lonely men.…
By April Sutphen
November 28, 2022
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Fanvue Review: Can You Actually Make Money?
You’ve heard of OnlyFans but have you heard of Fanvue? Similar to OnlyFans, Fanvue is a subscription-based website where creators…
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November 21, 2022
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How to Become a Tattoo Model
According to a recent study, 21% of Americans have tattoos. This beautiful art form is a popular way to express…
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November 14, 2022
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Is OnlyFans Safe?
With millions of creators and subscribers on OnlyFans, the platform is quickly becoming the most popular subscription website on the…
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November 7, 2022
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15 Ways to Make Money Fast as a Woman
According to one study, the average annual income for a working woman in 2021 is just under $70,000, which is…
By April Sutphen
October 24, 2022
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What is a Paypig and What are the Best Sites For Them?
Have you always dreamed of being independently wealthy? Does the thought of working tirelessly to achieve financial freedom make you…
By April Sutphen
October 17, 2022
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Modelhub Review
Are you looking for a safe and secure place to sell your adult content online? Then we’ve got the place…
By April Sutphen
October 14, 2022
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10 OnlyFans Profile Tips and Tricks to Inspire
So you’ve heard of people making money hand-over-first on OnlyFans and you’re wondering, “Where do I sign up?”. While this…
By April Sutphen
October 10, 2022
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Extra Lunch Money Review
If you’ve ever fancied making a little cash on the side with your adult side hustle, then have we got…
By April Sutphen
October 7, 2022
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How to Search on OnlyFans
The subscription platform OnlyFans has soared in popularity over the last few years. With an increasing number of people looking…
By April Sutphen
September 19, 2022
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How to Get Your Stripping License
Do you have seductive dance moves, a commanding presence, and the ability to work a stage and engage an audience?…
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September 12, 2022
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Lovense Lush 3 Review: Everything You Need to Know
The world of sex toys today is a far cry from what it once was. Although in a pinch, you…
By April Sutphen
August 26, 2022
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How to Become a Professional Cuddler
Do you love hugs, affection, and spooning after sex? If you answered yes, this article is for you. When it…
By April Sutphen
August 22, 2022
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How Much Can You Make on OnlyFans?
These days, it seems like everyone has an OnlyFans account. The subscription-based website soared in popularity following the Covid-19 pandemic…
By April Sutphen
August 15, 2022
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How Much Do Chaturbate Tokens Actually Cost?
In today’s world of digital technology, if you can think of it, the Internet probably has it. It’s never been…
By April Sutphen
August 1, 2022
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Best Fleshlights to Buy in 2022
Masturbation is a normal, healthy part of life. It’s also something men do twice as much as women, with guys…
By April Sutphen
July 29, 2022
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AdmireMe Review: Is it legit?
In recent years, subscription websites and platforms have virtually transformed the way online content creators can make money. Instead of…
By April Sutphen
July 11, 2022
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How Much Do Strippers Make?
The act of stripping as a means of adult entertainment dates back as far as the late 1800s. It began…
By Sofia Gray
July 4, 2022
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How Much Do Male Pornstars Make?
At any given second there is estimated to be at least 28,000 people in the world watching porn. For so…
By Sofia Gray
June 20, 2022
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How to Take Good Nudes
You don’t have to be a professional model or even a porn star to take nude pictures. In fact, most…
By April Sutphen
May 23, 2022
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How Much Do Porn Stars Make?
Does having sex for money sound too good to be true? Well, if you ask an industry-leading porn star, they…
By April Sutphen
May 9, 2022
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Adult Entertainment Jobs Perfect for a Side Hustle
When the going gets tough, the tough get going. So when money is tight the smart savvy adults among us…
By Sofia Gray
April 25, 2022
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How to Become a Stripper: The Ultimate Guide 2022
The life of a stripper can be thrilling but unpredictable. It takes more than just a sexy body and talented…
By April Sutphen
April 18, 2022
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Virtual Girlfriends: Where to find them? How much they cost? & More
There can be a lot of confusion around what these really are. When we mention the phrase virtual girlfriend some…
By Sofia Gray
April 11, 2022
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How To Make Money On ManyVids
Do you like to record yourself having sex? Have you ever wanted to get paid for doing so? Well, what…
By Sofia Gray
April 4, 2022
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How to Become a Male Porn Star
If you’re a man that loves sex (and who doesn’t?), does the thought of getting paid to get laid excite…
By April Sutphen
March 21, 2022
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How To Find A Sugar Momma
Relationships are constantly evolving as we grow and learn a lot about our society. Different types of mutually beneficial, weird…
By Sofia Gray
March 14, 2022
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LoyalFans Review: Everything You Need To Know
Becoming an adult star and building a following has never been easier. As new platforms pop up so often and…
By Sofia Gray
February 28, 2022
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Best Payment Methods For Sex Workers
In the realm of sex work making money has never been easy. However, as everything makes the shift to becoming…
By Sofia Gray
February 14, 2022
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Do You Know Your Rights as a UK Sex Worker?
Although prostitution and sex work are legal in over a dozen countries around the world, including the UK (with the…
By April Sutphen
January 31, 2022
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How To Sell Your Bodily Fluids
Hygrophilia, the technical term for the love of bodily fluids has trickled into the online space, as eventually, all fetishes…
By Sofia Gray
January 24, 2022
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Everything You Need to Know About ASMR Role-Playing
Role-playing has been around for centuries and is described as changing one’s behavior to assume a different role. This is…
By April Sutphen
January 10, 2022
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How to Make Money on OnlyFans Without Showing Your Face?
Do you want to join the millions of OnlyFans creators making money hand-over-fist but are hesitant to expose yourself to…
By Sofia Gray
December 27, 2021
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How the pandemic has changed sex work, for better and for worse
COVID-19 has changed almost every industry, and sex work is no different. Over the last two years, how sex workers…
By Sofia Gray
December 20, 2021
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How to Make Money Using NSFW Subreddits
Reddit is a great muse for new business ideas and ventures. So we decided to fish out some of the…
By Sofia Gray
December 13, 2021
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How to file your taxes for OnlyFans
Taxes can be a nightmare for everyone, but it’s even harder to navigate the process as a sex worker. There…
By Sofia Gray
November 22, 2021
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Here’s why writing adult fanfiction is secretly a type of sex work
Fanfiction is one of the coolest ways for people of all ages to express their sexuality through writing. Most fanfic…
By Sofia Gray
November 15, 2021
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4 Ways to Make Money Doing Sex Work Without Getting Naked
When people find out that someone is a sex worker, they probably assume that they’re getting naked on camera for…
By Sofia Gray
November 8, 2021
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What Is ASMR Porn? Here’s the Scoop.
Mainstream ASMR videos create a relaxing feeling for many viewers. They use them to wind down for bed and destress…
By Sofia Gray
November 1, 2021
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How to Make Money Online as a NSFW Cosplay Creator
When you were a kid, did you love dressing up as your favorite superhero or Disney princess? Do you still…
By Sofia Gray
September 27, 2021
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How to Create An OnlyFans Tip Menu & Add New Ideas
Creating a tip menu is an important part of being an online sex worker of any kind. Whether you’re on…
By Jaimee Bell
September 13, 2021
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How Selling Used Panties Can Boost Your Confidence
If you’re new to the world of selling used panties, welcome to Sofia Gray. We’re an online marketplace for used…
By Jaimee Bell
August 23, 2021
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FAQs About Cam Modeling
What Is Cam Modeling? A cam model is a video performer who streams on the internet (camming websites, specifically) via…
By Jaimee Bell
August 16, 2021
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Want to Buy Used Panties? Here’s How
When you watch porn, are you just thinking about how the star’s pussy smells? Are you constantly buying your girlfriend…
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August 9, 2021
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The Best Places to Promote Your Amateur Porn
Are you interested in getting into the porn industry? Maybe you are an actor, model, or NSFW content creator looking…
By Jaimee Bell
August 2, 2021
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Rookie Mistakes to Avoid When Selling Used Panties Online
Selling used panties is a fun, sometimes lucrative hobby. It can be a sexy side hustle or something you start…
By Jaimee Bell
July 26, 2021
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Rookie Mistakes to Avoid on Onlyfans
So…you’re thinking about starting an OnlyFans. Clearly, you’ve come to the right place. I’ve been covering all things sex work…
By Jaimee Bell
July 19, 2021
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Google’s Most Commonly Searched Questions About Sex Work
“What is sex work?” “What does a sex worker do?” is like asking what any other freelancer does. The answer?…
By Dr. Melissa Cook
July 12, 2021
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How to Gain More Fans on OnlyFans
Welcome to another OnlyFans post! Why do I keep writing these? Because they are really popular. Everyone wants to know…
By Jaimee Bell
July 5, 2021
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Sex Worker Stigmas, Misconceptions & The Truth
When you think of a “sex worker”, you likely have a very clear image pop into your mind. Something between…
By Jaimee Bell
June 28, 2021
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Selling Used Panties on TikTok: The Sofia Gray Guide
Welcome to Sofia Gray! We want you to succeed in this exciting new adventure – and the Sofia Gray Guides…
By Jaimee Bell
June 28, 2021
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Selling Used Panties on Twitter: The Sofia Gray Guide
Welcome to the Sofia Gray Guides – we’re glad you’re here. If you’re new to the world of selling used…
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June 28, 2021
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Selling Used Panties on Reddit: The Sofia Gray Guide
Welcome to the Sofia Gray Guides – we’re glad you’re here and interested in selling your used panties. It’s such…
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June 25, 2021
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Selling Used Panties on Instagram: The Sofia Gray Guide
Welcome to Sofia Gray! We want your used panties shop to thrive – and the Sofia Gray Guides can help…
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June 25, 2021
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Selling Used Panties on Facebook: The Sofia Gray Guide
Welcome to Sofia Gray! We want you to succeed in this exciting endeavor – and the Sofia Gray Guides can…
By Jaimee Bell
June 25, 2021
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Best Sex Toys to Use if Sex is Painful for You
Let’s Get Honest About Painful Penetration… Pain during sex for vagina-havers is a common problem. A bit more common than…
By Jaimee Bell
June 7, 2021
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Google’s Most Commonly Searched Anal Sex Questions
Questions About Safe Anal Sex What is the difference between anal sex and anal play? “Anal sex” is a term often…
By Jaimee Bell
May 31, 2021
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How to Protect Your Privacy on OnlyFans
What is OnlyFans? OnlyFans is a subscription-based social media platform. Here, your “fans” are charged a rate per month (which…
By Jaimee Bell
May 10, 2021
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Everything You Need to Know About Selling Feet Pics
Let’s talk about feet. What’s the difference between a foot fetish and a foot kink? The terms “fetish” and “kink” are…
By Jaimee Bell
May 3, 2021
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What Do You Need To Start An OnlyFans?
Yes, another post about OnlyFans – but hear me out: let’s talk about how to start yourself an OnlyFans (and…
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April 5, 2021
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Things You Probably Didn’t Know About Selling Used Panties Online
So…you want to get started selling used panties. Naturally, you’ve found yourself here on Sofia Gray, the world’s largest used…
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March 29, 2021
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The Best Websites for Promoting Your OnlyFans
Before we dive into how to promote your OnlyFans, let’s play a little catch-up… How To Start An OnlyFans… If…
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March 15, 2021
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Where to Sell Your Used Panties Online (And Why You Should Choose Sofia Gray)
If you’re interested in selling used panties, there are many different ways you could decide to do so – on…
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March 8, 2021
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Every Question You’ve Ever Had About OnlyFans, Answered
How Do You Earn Money on OnlyFans? OnlyFans launched in 2016 and is a subscription-based service that has a headquarters…
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March 1, 2021
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How to Choose a Price for Your Used Panties
So…you’re interested in selling used panties. Naturally, your first question is going to be “wait…I can get paid for that?”…
By Jaimee Bell
February 22, 2021
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15 Amazing Photo Editing Apps for OnlyFans
By now, you have to know what OnlyFans is, right? What many might not know is how to create stunning…
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February 15, 2021
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Best Sex Toys For Cam Models
Camming (short for webcam modeling or cam modeling) refers to someone who performs (naked or clothed) in front of a…
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February 8, 2021
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The Best Websites & Apps for Sexting
If you don’t know what sexting is by now, you either live under a rock or you’re a terrible liar.…
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February 1, 2021
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OnlyFans Creators Share Tips & Tricks of the Trade
What is OnlyFans? If you’ve been living under a rock for the past few years, let me catch you up…OnlyFans…
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January 25, 2021
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How Much Can I Make Selling Used Panties Online?
From Marilyn Monroe to Sacha Baron Cohen to the university girl trying to pay her rent – the business of…
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January 18, 2021
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Self Care for Adult Content Creators (Influencers, OnlyFans Creators, Sex Workers & Cam Models)
If I asked you the question: “do you care about yourself?” – your answer will likely be yes. If I…
By Jaimee Bell
January 11, 2021
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The World of Financial Domination: Why, How & How to Get Started
What is financial domination and why is it appealing? Financial domination is a BDSM term that is often shortened to…
By Jaimee Bell
December 30, 2020
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Happily Ever Aftercare: Your Guide to Aftercare
As an erotica/sex writer, I do a ton of research about different aspects of sex and different relationships. Regardless of…
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A Guy’s Guide to Edging: Becoming the Master of Your Orgasm
Everything you need to know about the male orgasm… The male orgasm is often under-explained. It’s either there or it’s…
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Open Relationships 101: Your Guide to Polyamorous Relationships
What comes to mind when you think of an open relationship? I think of orgies or play parties. But I…
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How Do You Mend a Broken Heart: Recovering from a Bad Dominant
The road to sexual discovery is one filled with ups and downs and sometimes even surprises as you explore the…
By Eloisa Hilton
December 14, 2020
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Solo Adventures: Let’s Talk About Anal Masturbation
Let’s talk about anal masturbation. Some people have some very polarizing opinions on anal sex, but here at Sofia Gray,…
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December 11, 2020
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How to Spot Red Flags in a Toxic Dominant Partner
Being dominant isn’t about being “in charge”, it’s about being the leader in a story you’ve written together. Being submissive…
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December 9, 2020
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The Best Sexual Wellness Apps for Women
What is sexual wellness? “Paying attention to our sexual wellness doesn’t mean you have to talk about sex…or that you…
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December 7, 2020
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Getting Back to Nature: Your Ultimate Guide to Outdoor Sex
Imagine being out on a hike with your special someone in the mountains. The air is crisp. The sun is…
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December 4, 2020
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How to Become a Sex Toy Tester
What is a sex toy tester? Well, it’s exactly what it sounds like – you test sex toys and review…
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December 2, 2020
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How to Promote Your NSFW OnlyFans
What is OnlyFans? If you’re reading this, you likely know what OnlyFans is and have already made an account (because…
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November 30, 2020
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What Women Love About a Man’s Hands. There is something about a man’s hands. I didn’t realize that I had…
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What is Orgasm Control?
Getting to know your orgasm… Every orgasm feels different. There are many different types of orgasms, but even when you…
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November 23, 2020
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A Beginner’s Guide to Pegging
Repeat after me: there is no shame in a man enjoying anal play. Anal play for men, specifically pegging, is a…
By Jaimee Bell
November 20, 2020
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Tie Me Up: Your Guide to Bondage Knots and Restraints
There are so many fun ways to tie someone up and even more yummy things that you can do to…
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Buy or Build Your Own BDSM Starter Kit
Are you interested in spicing up your sex life but have no idea where to start? BDSM starter kits are…
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November 2, 2020
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Pornhub Amateur Program: How Much Money Can I Make on Pornhub?
What is Pornhub? If you don’t already know, Pornhub is the world’s largest pornography website. Originally launched in May 2007,…
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October 21, 2020
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Snapchat, if you’re totally behind the times or have lived under a rock for the past decade, is a mobile…
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October 16, 2020
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How Does Chaturbate Work? How to Make Money on Chaturbate
What is Chaturbate? Chaturbate, which is a classic, totally under-rated wordplay, is a cam website. More specifically, it’s a cam…
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What is OnlyFans? How Does OnlyFans Work? According to PocketLint, in August 2020, OnlyFans was averaging around 30 million users…
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The original Lush by Lovense was the first vibrator to be controllable via an Apple Watch and the company raised…
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“Dominant” What does it mean to be dominant? As I’ve explained in a previous article, being dominant isn’t about being…
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Why You Should Become a Cam Model
In these unsettled times, it’s always good to have a backup plan or even a side hustle to keep income…
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BDSM punishments: what do they mean? BDSM punishments can be a way for the dominant to train their submissive or…
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September 23, 2020
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Selling Feet Pics: Pedicures are Worth the Investment
I love a good pedicure. I love getting my toenails painted and my feet rubbed to perfection. I think that…
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BDSM (as most of us know by now) stands for bondage/discipline, dominance/submission, sadism/masochism. I want to focus on the D/s…
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An Intro to BDSM Checklists: What Are They and Why Do I Need One?
If you’ve ever scheduled a trip abroad or moved to a new place, you will know that checklists can be…
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BDSM Contracts: You want me to sign a what?
We can all learn about how to be a better partner by exploring the way BDSM relationships work. I discovered…
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Webcam modeling (often referred to as ‘camming’) is a way of entertaining people online via webcam by creating unique shows…
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BDSM for beginners: how can I introduce BDSM into my sex life?
BDSM stands for bondage/discipline (BD), dominance/submission (DS), sadism/masochism (SM). There is a lot packed to those four little letters. When…
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What is a dental dam, and how the hell do I use one?
STDs are on the rise across the United States. Maybe it’s Tinder, maybe it’s disillusionment with the state of affairs,…
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Dame Fin Vibrator vs. Paloqueth Clitoral Vibrator vs. Pipedreams Finger Fun Vibe
Let’s talk finger-vibes! If you’ve never tried (or even really heard of) finger vibes before, I’ve got you. Finger vibes…
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Should I get a FetLife account?
If your play has ever veered left of vanilla, you’ve probably heard of FetLife. Founded in 2008, FetLife is its…
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August 21, 2020
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Lustery is branded as “the home of homemade porn videos.” Their goal is to be an outlet for real-life partners…
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Dipsea Review: the world of feminist audio erotica
Nowadays, there are so many ways we like to get it on, the options feel just about endless. From buying…
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Everything you need to know about the anal orgasm
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4 reasons to not have kids, and 6 things that improve when you’re child-free
When I was a kid, I was sure I was going to have little brats of my own one day.…
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August 3, 2020
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What is the history of sex toys? From stone to silicone and beyond…
According to this online study, around 44% of people said they currently use a sex toy or have used one…
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How to seduce your long-term partner
The beginnings of relationships are so much fun: the tease, the chase, the constant need to tear each other’s clothes…
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Why are people attracted to serial killers?
Before we dive into the mysterious “allure” of psychopaths and criminals, let’s take a step back for a moment. Because…
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“When it comes to your vagina, you don’t get to be lazy,” OB-GYN and author of ‘The Complete A-Z of…
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Does buying an Ohnut actually help painful penetration?
Endometriosis always made life a little like a shell game. I never quite knew what I’d get. If I was…
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Everything you don’t know about the Stonewall Uprising
Some call it a riot – we call it an uprising. Whatever it was, we all know for certain how…
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“She’s gorgeous.” “She’s a beauty.” “That’s a sexy car” When it comes to talking about cars, we’re somewhat used to…
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What is Plushophilia?
Plushophilia, in it’s simplest form, can be described as a sexual attraction to stuffed animals or people in animal costumes. …
By Jaimee Bell
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Is oil a good lube?
Sex is the pulse in the hollow of humanity’s collective throat. Like a coiling telephone cord, the sideways tango connects…
By Nikita Andester
June 26, 2020
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My husband and I incorporated all five senses into sex: here’s what happened
Even during a time in our collective history when we’re more homebound than ever before, our schedules are filling up.…
By Nikita Andester
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What is Consensual Non-Consent?
**Trigger warning:This article contains discussions involving rape fantasies. Although we will be focusing on consensual actions, the content you’re about…
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Out of the sheets and into the streets: the case for sex in public
If you haven’t done it, you’ve at least fantasized about it: sex in public. Getting freaky on the streets. Canoodling…
By Nikita Andester
January 9, 2020
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Porn
Everything You Need to Know About Porn Addiction
Even though pornography has been around for thousands of years, it is still a subject that remains as controversial, and…
By
Sofia Gray
January 8, 2020
Fetishes
News
We Take A look at Some Of The Kinkiest Festivals Around The World
To a lot of people, sex is the ultimate form of self-expression. And it may not come as a surprise…
By
Sofia Gray
January 7, 2020
News
Sex Toys
Good vibes only: the best vibrators for 2020
Step aside, toxic good vibes culture. There’s only one kind of vibe I care about, and that’s the kind that…
By Nikita Andester
January 6, 2020
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podcast
Sex Tips
New Year, New You: 10 Things You Should Try In 2020 That Will Boost Your Sex Life
New year, new you, new ways to climax? Yes, please! Going into 2020, we’re reflecting on the last year (and…
By Jaimee Bell
January 5, 2020
News
Sex Talk
Why Kinkshaming is So Last Decade
The shame game. We’ve all been guilty of it: someone (a partner, or maybe just a friend) decides to bring…
By Nikita Andester
January 3, 2020
Dating
News
Polyamorous Couples: Hunting for Unicorns
As the weather gets colder, snuggle season sets in, and we all start seeking out lovers to help us warm…
By Nikita Andester
January 2, 2020
News
Sex Talk
So You Have an STI. Now What?
So you just learned that you have an STI (aka STD). Or maybe you have a sore down there and…
By
Sofia Gray
December 31, 2019
News
Porn
What’s the deal with the UK Porn Ban, Anyway?
It seems like as long as sex exists, there will always be those who seek to censor it. Censoring pornography…
By
Sofia Gray
December 30, 2019
Fetishes
News
Tickled Pink: Why Some People Get Turned on By Tickling
When we think of the term ‘fetish’ we probably think about leather and latex, stilettos and whips – maybe even…
By
Sofia Gray
December 27, 2019
News
Sex Talk
What the Heck Is Tantric Sex?
If you’ve heard of tantric sex, you probably assume it’s having sex for like 8 hours. Many people also thinks…
By
Sofia Gray
December 26, 2019
News
Sex Tips
Do it for the Planet – A Guide to the Growing World of Low-Waste Sex
We all love to get it on – I know I sure do. But when I read about the state…
By Nikita Andester
December 25, 2019
News
Porn
What is Audio Porn, Why Is It So Great & Where Do I Find It?
“How does that feel against your pussy, baby?” I take my headphones off and set them on the table. I…
By Jaimee Bell
December 24, 2019
News
Sex Toys
Everything You Need to Know About Buying Sex Furniture
I don’t know about you, but one of the worst things I can think of when it comes to living…
By Jaimee Bell
December 23, 2019
News
Porn
Nine Steamy Netflix Films for you Streaming Pleasure
Netflix is home, quite surprisingly, to some rather raunchy titles that somehow passed the censors and slipped under the radar.…
By
Sofia Gray
December 18, 2019
News
Sex Talk
Are We Hornier Around the Holidays? Here’s Why You Might Be Having More Sex In December
Shorter days, bare trees and brisk air can only mean one thing: winter is here. Some people hate winter: chapped…
By Jaimee Bell
December 16, 2019
News
Sex Talk
Why You Should Definitely Be Reading More Romance Novels
Romance novels don’t have the greatest reputation. Most people have an idea of what a romance novel is that’s definitely…
By
Sofia Gray
December 13, 2019
Fetishes
News
12 Days of Christmas But Every Day is a New Kink to Try
On the first day of Christmas, my lover gave to me A spank delivered over bent knee No wait…that’s not…
By Jaimee Bell
December 12, 2019
News
Sex Talk
How to Go Under with Erotic Hypnosis
Have you ever wanted to be completely at the mercy of your partner? Maybe even do some things you never…
By
Sofia Gray
December 6, 2019
Fetishes
News
What Does It Mean To be A Furry?
The furry fandom (and furry culture in general) is so widespread that literally hundreds of thousands of people around the…
By Jaimee Bell
December 4, 2019
Fetishes
News
Discover new kinks with HUMP! Film Festival
My first time attending HUMP! I joined in on my friends’ second annual Corn ‘n’ Porn event – an autumn…
By Nikita Andester
December 3, 2019
News
podcast
Sex Toys
Sexy Stocking Stuffers Ideas for That Special Someone
What a magical, wonderful, special time of year, Finding something for that someone is tough when Christmas is so near.…
By Jaimee Bell
December 2, 2019
Fetishes
News
Golden Showers & Why People Find Urination Sexy
What do R. Kelly and Donald Trump have in common? Sorry – what do they “allegedly” have in common? Well,…
By Jaimee Bell
November 29, 2019
News
Sex Toys
Going Solo: All About Sex Toys for Men
It seems odd that there is more taboo surrounding male sex toys as opposed to female sex toys. Sex toy…
By
Sofia Gray
November 28, 2019
News
Sex Talk
Is the Vaginal Orgasm a Real Thing?
Vaginal orgasms are much sought after and rarely found in the sexual world. While some women claim they have them,…
By
Sofia Gray
November 27, 2019
News
Sex Talk
A Short and Sexy History of Erotic Cartoons
Erotic depictions and pornography in art and paintings are nothing new. From the erotic cave paintings of the Dordogne to…
By Sofia Gray
November 26, 2019
News
Sex Toys
A Raging Suck-cess: Is Air Pulse Tech the Future of Sex Toys?
Unless you’ve been living under the proverbial rock for the last few years, chances are you’ve noticed a sleek new…
By Jodie Taylor
November 25, 2019
Dating
News
How to Spice Up a Kinky Long Distance Relationship
Long distance relationships are difficult. There’s lots of pining, texting, and long Skype conversations. Even if you can meet up…
By
Sofia Gray
November 21, 2019
News
Sex Tips
You and Threesomes: How to Know When You’re Ready
Threesomes aren’t just for grandma’s 1970s swinger party anymore. When one in seven people in the states have dipped their…
By Nikita Andester
November 20, 2019
Fetishes
News
Kink & BDSM in Pop Culture
It seems like kink is becoming more prevalent than ever. A survey found that 36% of adults in the United…
By
Sofia Gray
November 18, 2019
Fetishes
News
An Exploration of Eco-fetishism
I’ve always loved a little pain with my pleasure – and sometimes, a little pleasure with my pain. The zing…
By Nikita Andester
November 13, 2019
Fetishes
News
podcast
Can You Ever Satisfy an Impossible Fetish?
Imagine, for just a second, that the only thing that gets you hot under the collar is to be swallowed…
By Steph Simpson
November 8, 2019
Fetishes
News
podcast
All You Need To Know About Foot Fetishism
Foot fetishes are probably the most popular fetish out there. Even the most vanilla of us have probably heard of…
By
Sofia Gray
November 7, 2019
Dating
News
podcast
Getting Around: Ethical Non-Monogamy On The Rise
Being in a committed couple is comfortable, safe, and great for some people, but loving one person doesn’t make all…
By
Sofia Gray
November 5, 2019
Fetishes
News
podcast
5 Kinks You Might Like If You Buy Used Panties
f you’re on our site, you’re probably into used underwear. But are you interested in adding something new and risque…
By
Sofia Gray
November 4, 2019
News
podcast
Sex Toys
11 Sex Toys Everyone Should Have in Their Collection
If you’re kinky, you probably own a few sex toys. Toys can help you get through the nights along when…
By
Sofia Gray
November 4, 2019
Fetishes
News
What is Spectrophilia & How Does it Even Work?
When you think of intimate relationships with ghosts, you’re likely picturing a young, attractive Patrick Swayze and a dewy-eyed Demi…
By Jaimee Bell
October 31, 2019
News
Sex Talk
A Modern Guide to Consent
#metoo. Brett Kavanaugh. The Access Hollywood tape. Matt Lauer. Left and right, stories of assault, unwanted touching, rape, and unwanted…
By Nikita Andester
October 28, 2019
News
Sex Tips
Why Every Straight Man Should Try Prostate Stimulation
If you’re a cis man or you were assigned male at birth, you have a prostate. So if that’s true,…
By
Sofia Gray
October 25, 2019
News
Sex Work
What To Do When Your Partner is Against Your Sex Work?
You’ve found it, that new opportunity that makes your heart hammer: joining a Prince cover band like you’ve always wanted,…
By Nikita Andester
October 21, 2019
News
Sex Talk
Japanese Love Hotels: What Are They and Why Do They Exist?
Aside from art, calligraphy and flower-arranging – Japan is widely known for it’s wildly different and often surreal trends and…
By
Sofia Gray
October 14, 2019
Dating
News
My Partner Hates My Kink…Now What?
Chains and whips excite me…but they don’t excite my partner. Now what? Everyone wants to carry out their naughty fantasies,…
By Jaimee Bell
October 7, 2019
Dating
News
Dating Apps for people with Fetishes
Only twenty years ago, the idea of a piece of technology like Tinder becoming a household name was unfathomable. Now,…
By
Sofia Gray
October 4, 2019
News
Sex Talk
Sexy Tech: The Rise of Digisexuality
You might say we’re in the midst of a sexual revolution. The advancement of technology and the evolution of how…
By
Sofia Gray
October 2, 2019
News
Sex Work
Camming Gives New Meaning to ‘Friends with Benefits’
Over the past decade, camming has grown into a prominent sector of the sex industry. Major sites like Cams, Chaturbate,…
By
Sofia Gray
September 24, 2019
News
Sex Talk
Top 5 Anime Panty Shots
Panty shots in cartoons may seem surprising, but in the Ecchi sub genre of anime (a style of anime featuring…
By
Sofia Gray
September 20, 2019
Fetishes
News
podcast
How 50 Shades of Grey Ruined BDSM
BDSM is defined as expressing your fantasies and desires of bondage, discipline, dominance, submission, masochism, and sadism. But ultimately, BDSM…
By Jaimee Bell
September 16, 2019
News
Sex Stories
How Live Cam Sex With a Stranger Totally and Completely Changed My Life
Live cam sex with a total stranger literally changed my life. Not just my sex life, but my actual life.…
By Jaimee Bell
September 13, 2019
News
Porn
You, Your Partner, and Pornhub
Do you feel like Pornhub is the third wheel in your relationship? Is porn a bit of a sore topic…
By Jaimee Bell
September 11, 2019
News
Sex Work
Spotlight: Male Panty Sellers
The idea of women selling their used underwear, online or otherwise, is so widely familiar that it’s no longer shocking.…
By
Sofia Gray
September 5, 2019
Dating
News
Is It Cheating If your Partner Is Secretly Buying Used Panties?
There are few things more terrifying in a relationship than the prospect of your partner cheating. The sneaking around. The…
By
Sofia Gray
August 13, 2019
News
Sex Stories
What You Can Learn From a Guy Who’s Spent Over $4K on Used Panties
Here’s the thing: people have always been freaky. You, me, your best friend, your boss, your barista…everyone. But now, finally,…
By
Sofia Gray
June 10, 2019
Dating
News
How to Casually Bring up Kinks with a Woman on a First Date
But you can, and arguably should, talk about sex with a woman you’re getting to know — even on a…
By
Sofia Gray
May 27, 2019
