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How to Have Better Sex: Practical Tips to Improve Intimacy, Pleasure, and Connection

Let’s talk about sex. Not the awkward, fumbling kind you see in movies, but the real, messy, wonderful experience that…

By Sofia Gray

January 16, 2026

How To Find An Orgy

Finding an orgy often involves navigating private communities where discretion, communication, and mutual respect are essential. Interest in group experiences…

By Sofia Gray

August 19, 2022

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How Much Does An Escort Cost?

Escort pricing varies widely depending on location, experience level, duration, and the type of service offered. Rates can differ significantly…

By Sofia Gray

February 21, 2022

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How to Deep Throat: Tips & Techniques for Giving Great Oral Sex

At Sofia Gray, we know oral sex is one of the fastest ways to boost intimacy, build anticipation, and make…

By Jaimee Bell

October 26, 2020

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Bondage Tutorial: Knots You Didn’t Learn in Scouts

Bondage can be an exciting way to explore trust, control, and anticipation — but the difference between “hot” and “hazardous”…

By Eloisa Hilton

October 23, 2020

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The Best Submissive Sex Positions for Pleasing Your Dominant

Power dynamics can add a whole new layer of excitement to sex – especially when both partners are fully on…

By Jaimee Bell

October 7, 2020

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My husband and I’s first threesome

My husband and I’s first threesome was something we approached with curiosity, honesty, and a shared understanding of our boundaries.…

By Nikita Andester

May 19, 2020

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Kick it up another notch – everything you needed to know about kitchen sex

Bedroom routines can get stale fast — and sometimes the easiest way to make sex feel exciting again is as…

By Nikita Andester

April 27, 2020

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The Ultimate Guide to FaceFucking

Facefucking is one of the most intense and controversial oral sex dynamics out there — and it’s often misunderstood because…

By Jaimee Bell

April 21, 2020

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The Lazy Girl’s Guide to Giving Incredible Blowjobs

Wanting to give a great blowjob doesn’t mean you need pornstar-level skills or a jaw workout that leaves you sore…

By Jaimee Bell

April 15, 2020

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How to Have Your Sexiest Game Night Ever

Some people just love games. The joy of competition, the rush of adrenaline with victory…it can be addictive. If you…

By Sofia Gray

April 10, 2020

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What Should I Do If My Libido Is Lower Than My Partner’s?

Do you sometimes feel like you’re never “in the mood” when your partner is? Do you have sex even though…

By Sofia Gray

March 28, 2020

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The Lazy Girl’s Guide to Quickies: Mastering Speedy Sex (and still having a good orgasm or ...

Sometimes you want to go all out: I’m talking putting the nice sheets on your bed before your partner gets…

By Sofia Gray

March 23, 2020

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A Lazy Girl’s Guide to Effortless (and Amazing) Phone Sex

“What are you wearing?” he asks in a devilishly charming voice. “Your favorite…that red lace set you like so much…”…

By Jaimee Bell

March 20, 2020

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How to Eat Pussy Like a Pro

Oral sex is one of the most intimate ways to connect with a partner — and when it’s done with…

By Sofia Gray

March 16, 2020

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How Your Sex Life Can Actually Improve Once You Become Parents

Your sex life changes when you have kids. When I say this, you’re already starting to think about that giant…

By Jaimee Bell

March 14, 2020

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Sensory play: how incorporating all five senses will boost your sex life

What exactly is it about sex that makes us feel oh, so good? Most of the time, we can get…

By Nikita Andester

March 3, 2020

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Ladies, There are 11 Different Kinds of Orgasms & Here’s How to Experience Them All

The idea of studying the female orgasm is not new – in fact, it may be a topic that’s been…

By Jaimee Bell

February 29, 2020

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The best foods to up your sex drive

We all get some spam email at least once a year about the magic blue pill that will help you…

By Nikita Andester

February 24, 2020

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33 Ways to Have Sex Without Penetration

We have a mind blowing fact for you. You might want to sit down. Sex doesn’t have to involve penetration!…

By Sofia Gray

February 21, 2020

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Rimming Is For Everyone (And It’s Great!)

We’re going to get into more butt stuff today! Yay butt stuff! Sit back (or squat, you do you) and…

By Sofia Gray

February 19, 2020

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The definitive guide to incredible rough sex

Some like it sweet, while others like it rough. I know that I, for one, enjoy some roughhousing in the…

By Nikita Andester

February 17, 2020

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Pushing It to the Limit with Anal Stretching

Have you ever heard of a size queen? AKA, someone who’s into really huge dicks? Well, some people want even…

By Sofia Gray

February 11, 2020

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The ultimate sex playlist – choosing the best music for getting it on

Anyone who’s ever had a roommate blasting video games in the next room can tell you that when you’re trying…

By Nikita Andester

February 10, 2020

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Foursomes – the best way to liven up your sex life

If you and your partner have been looking for a way to break out of routine and add something new…

By Nikita Andester

February 7, 2020

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Here’s What You Need to Know About Being Dominant in Bed

BDSM…the four best letters in the alphabet for anyone with a kinky bone in their body. If you’re here, you’re…

By Jaimee Bell

February 5, 2020

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Here’s What You Need to Know About Being Submissive in Bed

Being tied down (or tied up), being blindfolded and gagged, being bossed around, obeying orders and living (for the moment)…

By Jaimee Bell

February 4, 2020

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A Beginner’s Guide to Fisting

Maybe you’ve heard of fisting, and your main thought was ouch. Or you’ve watched some fisting porn and always kinda…

By Sofia Gray

February 3, 2020

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Earn those red wings by having sex on your period

It’s 2020, baby. Self-driving cars are hitting the roads. People carry computers in their pockets that connect them to anyone…

By Nikita Andester

January 29, 2020

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How Can You Slip and Slide Your Way to Better Sex? Use Lube!

If you’ve never used lube during your sexual exploits, you’re missing out. Many people think that lubricant is only made…

By Sofia Gray

January 28, 2020

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Can I really orgasm through nipple play?

Confession: I’ve been criminally under-servicing my nipples. To be honest, I like to think of myself as pretty sexually hep.…

By Nikita Andester

January 28, 2020

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Let’s Talk About Foreplay: A How-To Guide on Making Foreplay the Best Play

I’m going to be straight with you: if you’re skipping foreplay, you’re missing out on one of the best parts…

By Jaimee Bell

January 27, 2020

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Everything You Need to Know About Plan B & How it Works

So you’re having sex and having a great time. But then the condom breaks. Or you realize you forgot to…

By Sofia Gray

January 22, 2020

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DIY Sex Toys Made From Household Objects

Sex toys can definitely add variety and excitement to your sex life — but not everyone has the budget, privacy,…

By Jaimee Bell

January 21, 2020

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The Ultimate Beginners Guide to Anal Sex: Candid, No-Nonsense Advice on All Things Anal

“Let’s talk about anal sex” – said every sex writer, ever. “Better yet – let’s make it a beginner’s guide.” …

By Jaimee Bell

January 20, 2020

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11 Ways to Increase Your Libido (And Why It Might Be Low in the First Place)

Everyone has moments when they’re just not in the mood for sex. Like maybe at a funeral, or just after…

By Sofia Gray

January 16, 2020

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The Difference Between Hurting & Harming With Rough Sex

No two flavors of pleasure are exactly alike. Even inexperienced lovers or the most vanilla of couples have some particular…

By Nikita Andester

January 14, 2020

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New Year, New You: 10 Things You Should Try In 2020 That Will Boost Your Sex Life

New year, new you, new ways to climax? Yes, please! Going into 2020, we’re reflecting on the last year (and…

By Jaimee Bell

January 5, 2020

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Do it for the Planet – A Guide to the Growing World of Low-Waste Sex

We all love to get it on – I know I sure do. But when I read about the state…

By Nikita Andester

December 25, 2019

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Dirty Talk for Dummies: How to Sound Sexy and Not Totally Awkward

At Sofia Gray, we know oral sex is one of the fastest ways to boost intimacy, build anticipation, and make…

By Jaimee Bell

December 11, 2019

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You and Threesomes: How to Know When You’re Ready

Threesomes aren’t just for grandma’s 1970s swinger party anymore. When one in seven people in the states have dipped their…

By Nikita Andester

November 20, 2019

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The Ultimate Kinky Couple’s Guide to Sex Toys

Sex toys can be one of the easiest (and most fun) ways for couples to add variety, confidence, and deeper…

By Jaimee Bell

November 19, 2019

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Why Every Straight Man Should Try Prostate Stimulation

If you’re a cis man or you were assigned male at birth, you have a prostate. So if that’s true,…

By Sofia Gray

October 25, 2019

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Nailing an orgy: an etiquette guide

Group sex can be thrilling, but it’s also one of those experiences where the vibe can go wrong fast if…

By Nikita Andester

October 17, 2019

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The Ultimate Guide to Squirting

Squirting is one of the most talked-about topics in sex — and also one of the most misunderstood. Some people…

By Sofia Gray

October 10, 2019