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Kinks & Fetishes
Kinks & Fetishes: A Comprehensive List of Sexual Interests and Preferences
Sexual interests can be a lot more diverse than most people realize — and having the right words for what…
By
Sofia Gray
January 23, 2026
Kinks & Fetishes
How To Find BDSM Clubs
BDSM clubs can be an amazing way to explore kink in a safer, more community-focused setting — but finding the…
By Sofia Gray
May 16, 2022
Kinks & Fetishes
The Thing We Don’t Talk About: Dom Drop
Dom drop is something many Dominants experience — yet it’s rarely talked about as openly as sub drop. After an…
By Eloisa Hilton
January 1, 2021
Kinks & Fetishes
“Ownership” in a D/s Relationship: Why Is It Sexy to Be Owned?
“Ownership” in a D/s relationship doesn’t mean control without consent — it’s a negotiated, intentional dynamic built on trust, desire,…
By Jaimee Bell
December 25, 2020
Kinks & Fetishes
Sex & Feet: How to Explore Your Foot Fetish During Sex
A foot fetish is one of the most common kinks — and it can be surprisingly easy to explore during…
By Jaimee Bell
December 21, 2020
Kinks & Fetishes
An Intro to Domspace: What Every Dominant Should Know
Domspace is a focused headspace some Dominants experience during a scene — where decision-making feels sharper, confidence comes more naturally,…
By Jaimee Bell
December 16, 2020
Kinks & Fetishes
An Intro to BDSM Subspace: What Every Submissive Should Know
BDSM subspace is a mental and physical state some submissives experience during intense scenes — often described as feeling floaty,…
By Jaimee Bell
November 25, 2020
Kinks & Fetishes
Everything You Want to Know About Breast Torture
Breast torture is a kink that focuses on intense nipple and breast stimulation — and while the name sounds extreme,…
By Eloisa Hilton
November 18, 2020
Kinks & Fetishes
Let’s Talk About the BDSM Cross & Other Fetish Furniture
Fetish furniture adds a physical, visual element to kink that can make scenes feel more intentional, immersive, and structured. Pieces…
By Jaimee Bell
November 16, 2020
Kinks & Fetishes
Hit Me Baby One More Time: A Crash Course in Flogging
Flogging is a classic form of impact play that blends rhythm, sensation, and control — and despite how dramatic it…
By Eloisa Hilton
November 13, 2020
Kinks & Fetishes
An Introduction to Primal Play
Primal play is a kink that focuses less on scripts and roles, and more on raw chemistry, instinct, and the…
By Jaimee Bell
November 11, 2020
Kinks & Fetishes
Do Exactly as I say: Your Guide to JOI
JOI (short for “jerk off instruction”) is a popular kink because it blends control, teasing, and guided pleasure into one…
By Eloisa Hilton
October 30, 2020
Kinks & Fetishes
What is BDSM Pet Play?
BDSM pet play is a kink centered around roleplay, power exchange, and headspace — where one partner takes on an…
By Jaimee Bell
October 14, 2020
Kinks & Fetishes
Your Guide to Submissive Punishments
Submissive punishments are a structured part of many D/s dynamics — not about cruelty, but about accountability, ritual, and reinforcing…
By Eloisa Hilton
October 9, 2020
Kinks & Fetishes
What is a voice kink?
A voice kink is when someone feels turned on by someone’s voice, tone, accent, or the way they speak –…
By Jaimee Bell
August 12, 2020
Kinks & Fetishes
What is a breeding fetish?
A breeding fetish is a fantasy centered around the idea of impregnation — not necessarily the real-life goal of having…
By Jaimee Bell
July 31, 2020
Kinks & Fetishes
Cross Dressing and Sexual Pleasure; The Allure of Transvestic Fetishism
Cross-dressing and sexual pleasure can be deeply personal, surprisingly common, and way more nuanced than the stereotypes make it seem.…
By Emma Flint
June 16, 2020
Kinks & Fetishes
Forget friends with benefits – try a sexual friendship instead
A “sexual friendship” can be a healthier, more intentional alternative to the usual friends-with-benefits setup – especially if you want…
By Nikita Andester
June 7, 2020
Kinks & Fetishes
The Kinky Couple’s Guide to Giving Your Spouse a “Hall Pass”
A “hall pass” is one of those relationship topics that can feel exciting, intimidating, or both — and it’s usually…
By Jaimee Bell
May 10, 2020
Kinks & Fetishes
Why Is It So Erotic to Be Blind During Sex? Amaurophilia Explained
Being blindfolded during sex can heighten sensation in a way that surprises a lot of people. When sight is removed,…
By Jaimee Bell
April 29, 2020
Kinks & Fetishes
What’s the deal with a stockings fetish?
A stockings fetish is one of those attractions that’s more common than people realize — and it’s usually about far…
By Nikita Andester
April 8, 2020
Kinks & Fetishes
Everything you ever needed to know about the kink: pony play
Pony play is a kink that blends roleplay, power dynamics, and playful transformation — and it can range from light,…
By
Sofia Gray
April 3, 2020
Kinks & Fetishes
The Top 10 Types of Edgeplay to Unleash Your Inner Kinkster
Edgeplay is one of the most intense corners of BDSM — not because it has to be extreme, but because…
By
Sofia Gray
March 27, 2020
Kinks & Fetishes
What You Need to Know About Gags: How to Choose the Right One
Gags can be a fun, intense addition to BDSM and power play – but they’re also one of the pieces…
By Jaimee Bell
March 7, 2020
Kinks & Fetishes
Why Medical Play is an Iconic Staple of Kinky Sex
Medical play has earned its place as a long-standing kink staple because it blends authority, vulnerability, ritual, and trust in…
By Jaimee Bell
March 4, 2020
Kinks & Fetishes
Teratophilia: Do You Have a Monster Fetish?
Teratophilia is a term used to describe attraction to fictional or fantasy “monstrous” beings — think creatures from mythology, horror,…
By
Sofia Gray
January 24, 2020
Kinks & Fetishes
Erotic Humiliation: Why Shame Can Be So Arousing
Erotic humiliation is a kink that often gets misunderstood — but for many people, it isn’t about feeling bad so…
By
Sofia Gray
December 17, 2019
Kinks & Fetishes
Getting Some Strange: Why is Stranger Sex Such a Popular Fantasy?
The idea of stranger sex has long appeared in conversations about attraction, curiosity, and the appeal of stepping briefly outside…
By
Sofia Gray
December 10, 2019
Kinks & Fetishes
Exploring Santaphilia: Why Do Some People Find Santa So Sexy?
Santaphilia is a niche fetish centered around the idea of Santa as a fantasy figure — not the children’s character,…
By
Sofia Gray
December 9, 2019
Kinks & Fetishes
Hot & Heavy: Here’s What You Need to Know About Fire Play
Fire play is one of those kinks that sounds extreme right out of the gate — but in practice, it’s…
By Jaimee Bell
December 5, 2019
Kinks & Fetishes
The Dominant’s Guide to the Art of Spanking
Spanking is one of the most popular (and misunderstood) forms of kink — and when it’s done well, it’s equal…
By Jaimee Bell
November 22, 2019
Kinks & Fetishes
Paraphilia and Pimples: We Look at Why Some People Are Getting off On Dr Pimple Popper Videos!
Pimple popping videos might seem like an odd place for arousal — yet for a small but vocal group of…
By
Sofia Gray
November 15, 2019
Kinks & Fetishes
An Introduction to Leather Kink and Culture
Leather kink has a long history in BDSM culture – and for many people, it’s about a lot more than…
By
Sofia Gray
November 14, 2019
Kinks & Fetishes
Warming Up to Wax Play
Wax play is a form of sensation play that focuses on heat, anticipation, and contrast rather than pain alone. The…
By
Sofia Gray
November 12, 2019
Kinks & Fetishes
Pregnancy Fetishism & Why It Totally Makes Sense
Pregnancy fetishism can sound surprising at first — but when you look a little closer, it actually fits neatly into…
By Jaimee Bell
November 11, 2019
Kinks & Fetishes
The Shocking Appeal of Erotic Electro-Stimulation
Erotic electro-stimulation often sounds shocking at first — but for many people, its appeal lies in precision, sensation control, and…
By Jaimee Bell
November 1, 2019
Kinks & Fetishes
Here’s What You Need to Know About Blood Fetishes
Blood fetishes can sound alarming if you’ve only heard the term in passing — but in most cases, the interest…
By Jaimee Bell
October 24, 2019
Kinks & Fetishes
The Ultimate Guide to Self Bondage
Self-bondage is a kink that combines restraint, anticipation, and control — but with one major difference: you’re the one calling…
By Jaimee Bell
October 22, 2019
Kinks & Fetishes
Got Milk? Everything You Need to Know About Erotic Lactation
Erotic lactation is one of those topics that people are often curious about — but rarely know how to ask…
By
Sofia Gray
October 18, 2019
Kinks & Fetishes
Can ASMR be Kinky?
ASMR is usually associated with relaxation, sleep, and that familiar “tingly” feeling — but for some people, it can also…
By
Sofia Gray
October 11, 2019
Kinks & Fetishes
5 Things You Need to Know About Breath Play
Breath play is one of the most talked-about – and most misunderstood – practices in BDSM because it sits firmly…
By Jaimee Bell
September 25, 2019
Kinks & Fetishes
How Are Fetishes Formed?
Fetishes don’t usually appear out of nowhere — they tend to develop over time through a mix of psychology, experience,…
By Kate Sloan
September 18, 2019
Kinks & Fetishes
Going Solo: Kinks & Fetishes for One
Solo play doesn’t have to mean “basic” — and exploring kinks and fetishes on your own can be one of…
By Jaimee Bell
September 13, 2019
Kinks & Fetishes
Salt and Scent: The Sweat Fetish Community Online
The sweat fetish community is one of the most active corners of online kink culture — and it makes sense…
By
Sofia Gray
August 6, 2019