Kinks & Fetishes

Sexual interests can be a lot more diverse than most people realize — and having the right words for what…
By Sofia Gray
January 23, 2026
BDSM clubs can be an amazing way to explore kink in a safer, more community-focused setting — but finding the…
By Sofia Gray
May 16, 2022
Dom drop is something many Dominants experience — yet it’s rarely talked about as openly as sub drop. After an…
By Eloisa Hilton
January 1, 2021
“Ownership” in a D/s relationship doesn’t mean control without consent — it’s a negotiated, intentional dynamic built on trust, desire,…
By Jaimee Bell
December 25, 2020
A foot fetish is one of the most common kinks — and it can be surprisingly easy to explore during…
By Jaimee Bell
December 21, 2020
Domspace is a focused headspace some Dominants experience during a scene — where decision-making feels sharper, confidence comes more naturally,…
By Jaimee Bell
December 16, 2020
BDSM subspace is a mental and physical state some submissives experience during intense scenes — often described as feeling floaty,…
By Jaimee Bell
November 25, 2020
Breast torture is a kink that focuses on intense nipple and breast stimulation — and while the name sounds extreme,…
By Eloisa Hilton
November 18, 2020
Fetish furniture adds a physical, visual element to kink that can make scenes feel more intentional, immersive, and structured. Pieces…
By Jaimee Bell
November 16, 2020
Flogging is a classic form of impact play that blends rhythm, sensation, and control — and despite how dramatic it…
By Eloisa Hilton
November 13, 2020
Primal play is a kink that focuses less on scripts and roles, and more on raw chemistry, instinct, and the…
By Jaimee Bell
November 11, 2020
JOI (short for “jerk off instruction”) is a popular kink because it blends control, teasing, and guided pleasure into one…
By Eloisa Hilton
October 30, 2020
BDSM pet play is a kink centered around roleplay, power exchange, and headspace — where one partner takes on an…
By Jaimee Bell
October 14, 2020
Submissive punishments are a structured part of many D/s dynamics — not about cruelty, but about accountability, ritual, and reinforcing…
By Eloisa Hilton
October 9, 2020
A voice kink is when someone feels turned on by someone’s voice, tone, accent, or the way they speak –…
By Jaimee Bell
August 12, 2020
A breeding fetish is a fantasy centered around the idea of impregnation — not necessarily the real-life goal of having…
By Jaimee Bell
July 31, 2020
Cross-dressing and sexual pleasure can be deeply personal, surprisingly common, and way more nuanced than the stereotypes make it seem.…
By Emma Flint
June 16, 2020
A “sexual friendship” can be a healthier, more intentional alternative to the usual friends-with-benefits setup – especially if you want…
By Nikita Andester
June 7, 2020
A “hall pass” is one of those relationship topics that can feel exciting, intimidating, or both — and it’s usually…
By Jaimee Bell
May 10, 2020
Being blindfolded during sex can heighten sensation in a way that surprises a lot of people. When sight is removed,…
By Jaimee Bell
April 29, 2020
A stockings fetish is one of those attractions that’s more common than people realize — and it’s usually about far…
By Nikita Andester
April 8, 2020
Pony play is a kink that blends roleplay, power dynamics, and playful transformation — and it can range from light,…
By Sofia Gray
April 3, 2020
Edgeplay is one of the most intense corners of BDSM — not because it has to be extreme, but because…
By Sofia Gray
March 27, 2020
Gags can be a fun, intense addition to BDSM and power play – but they’re also one of the pieces…
By Jaimee Bell
March 7, 2020
Medical play has earned its place as a long-standing kink staple because it blends authority, vulnerability, ritual, and trust in…
By Jaimee Bell
March 4, 2020
Teratophilia is a term used to describe attraction to fictional or fantasy “monstrous” beings — think creatures from mythology, horror,…
By Sofia Gray
January 24, 2020
Erotic humiliation is a kink that often gets misunderstood — but for many people, it isn’t about feeling bad so…
By Sofia Gray
December 17, 2019
The idea of stranger sex has long appeared in conversations about attraction, curiosity, and the appeal of stepping briefly outside…
By Sofia Gray
December 10, 2019
Santaphilia is a niche fetish centered around the idea of Santa as a fantasy figure — not the children’s character,…
By Sofia Gray
December 9, 2019
Fire play is one of those kinks that sounds extreme right out of the gate — but in practice, it’s…
By Jaimee Bell
December 5, 2019
Spanking is one of the most popular (and misunderstood) forms of kink — and when it’s done well, it’s equal…
By Jaimee Bell
November 22, 2019
Pimple popping videos might seem like an odd place for arousal — yet for a small but vocal group of…
By Sofia Gray
November 15, 2019
Leather kink has a long history in BDSM culture – and for many people, it’s about a lot more than…
By Sofia Gray
November 14, 2019
Wax play is a form of sensation play that focuses on heat, anticipation, and contrast rather than pain alone. The…
By Sofia Gray
November 12, 2019
Pregnancy fetishism can sound surprising at first — but when you look a little closer, it actually fits neatly into…
By Jaimee Bell
November 11, 2019
Erotic electro-stimulation often sounds shocking at first — but for many people, its appeal lies in precision, sensation control, and…
By Jaimee Bell
November 1, 2019
Blood fetishes can sound alarming if you’ve only heard the term in passing — but in most cases, the interest…
By Jaimee Bell
October 24, 2019
Self-bondage is a kink that combines restraint, anticipation, and control — but with one major difference: you’re the one calling…
By Jaimee Bell
October 22, 2019
Erotic lactation is one of those topics that people are often curious about — but rarely know how to ask…
By Sofia Gray
October 18, 2019
ASMR is usually associated with relaxation, sleep, and that familiar “tingly” feeling — but for some people, it can also…
By Sofia Gray
October 11, 2019
Breath play is one of the most talked-about – and most misunderstood – practices in BDSM because it sits firmly…
By Jaimee Bell
September 25, 2019
Fetishes don’t usually appear out of nowhere — they tend to develop over time through a mix of psychology, experience,…
By Kate Sloan
September 18, 2019
Solo play doesn’t have to mean “basic” — and exploring kinks and fetishes on your own can be one of…
By Jaimee Bell
September 13, 2019
The sweat fetish community is one of the most active corners of online kink culture — and it makes sense…
By Sofia Gray
August 6, 2019